You know what would help a military retiree in a major way?
If their retirement pay was actually deposited!
So far this year is shaping up to suck in a major way.
Edit later to revise: It would help if the pay was the correct amount, deposited into the right account... It's now there, just not it should be, and we can't touch it until the Spouse Thingy gets all this sorted out.
But yeah. I have a short fuse these days, I've noticed.
Can ya tell???